1. Joint cooperation: You and your partner must be united in this endeavor. A consensus must be evident in front of your children at all times.

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2. Set expectations or expect nothing: Set clear expectations for yourself and your children to minimize problems and ensure accountability.

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3. Routine and consistency every day: Kids thrive on routine and predictability, making consistent behavior essential for a stable environment.

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4. Just bite, no need to bark: Act swiftly and explain actions without resorting to threats, fostering accountability.

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5. Your kid doesn’t need a friend, they need a parent: Emphasize your parental role over friendship to provide guidance and discipline.

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6. When you cry, you get nothing: Discourage manipulation through tears by setting firm boundaries and staying consistent.

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7. If I step on it, I throw it out: Instill responsibility and respect for belongings by enforcing consequences for carelessness.

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8. No is bigger than yes: Prioritize agreement between partners to avoid conflicts and keep consistency in decision-making.

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9. Watch your mouth; they hear everything: Be mindful of your language and tone, as children absorb and emulate your behavior.

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10. Lists work and set expectations: Use lists to communicate clear expectations and track progress effectively.

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11. Read to your kid until they read to you: Foster a love for reading by engaging with your child through books, gradually transitioning to independent reading.

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12. Reflection allows for correction: Regularly assess your parenting approach and discuss areas for improvement with your partner to ensure ongoing growth.